The House of my Dreams Was NOT My Dream House

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Sleeping has always meant dreaming for me. I can’t recall any night without dreaming, vivid, powerful dreams. Or terrifying nightmares.

Does dreaming make me more creative? Or does being more creative make me prone to wild dreams? Not sure, but there is some research being done here. (Why do I call myself creative? I write stories, blogs, poetry, I paint, draw, woodburn, I dance, I play instruments, I have a constant flow of annoying thoughts and daydreams that never ever stop)

http://www.webmd.com/balance/news/20030627/creative-people-remember-more-dreams

Excerpt: 

When researchers looked at personality traits that contributed to dream recall, they found people who were prone to absorption, imaginativeness, daydreaming, and fantasizing were most likely to remember their dreams.

 “There is a fundamental continuity between how people experience the world during the day and at night,” says researcher David Watson, a professor of psychology at the University of Iowa, in a news release. “People who are prone to daydreaming and fantasy have less of a barrier between states of sleep and wakefulness and seem to more easily pass between them.”

 

What do these dreams mean? Or why do I have them? And what does it mean that I no longer have the same recurrent dreams? Is it a sign of mental healing?

For years, so many years, I have had the same terrifying dream of being trapped in a huge house with an unseen scary presence. Floors would drop out unexpectedly, stairs would turn into slides, and all the doors are locked. I roam the hallways, trying every door to find safety or escape. Around every corner, is a new hallway, a new gruesome sight in an endless and expanding floorplan. If I pass a mirror, I am not alive in the mirror, but some twisted and disgusting creature full of holes. I hear evil laughter and usually wake up screaming.

I have not had this dream in the past few months. I have instead been dreaming of lovely houses, and exploring endless and expanding floor plans, but nothing is scary. The doors are all unlocked. I see my actual self in the mirrors. I am not alone – My family is with me, and often my children lead the way and call for me excitedly “Mom, you have to see THIS room” and I follow their happy voices and find yet another amazing, beautiful room full of solid, stately architecture. A mix of Victorian, Craftsman, some Celtic knots and even some LOTR Elvish beauty along with  Modern styles. Yes, I have complex tastes, apparently. Every room is rich in detail, from hand carved woodwork, to molded plasterwork, hand made Tiffany style stained glass windows and light fixtures, and hand chiseled stone fireplaces. Everything is beautiful. And then Hubby says we might be able to afford it. Do I like it? And I am full of hope.

I think my brain is actually changing. I think I am no longer stuck in my mental prison. I think I have more hope than fears. Wow.

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More info about house dreams. I don’t believe in all dream interpretation, or follow it as totally accurate, but I do think there is something to it here.

 

http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/the-house-in-your-dream/

The House In Your Dream

When you dream of a house, you are meeting a hugely important and many sided representation of yourself. It is both many faceted and multidimensional.

If this is an old house and you gain entrance to new areas, you need to ask yourself what influences from the past – perhaps the long past – are emerging in you at the moment.

Is the house well built or weak in some areas. If weak what areas and what can you gather from that? If it is well built, does it reflect any particular skills or strengths you have and does your personality and inner life reflect those skills or lack of them?

Any weakness in the house may represent difficulties you are facing – and of course strengths are signs of your ability to cope with life. Does this link in any way with either your health, or the condition of your inner or outer life? What is it saying about you?

In the dream how are you relating to the house? Are you arriving, leaving, repairing it, pulling it down, exploring it? Whatever you are doing, or in whatever way you are relating to the house, what does that suggest about what you are doing to your body, your personality, or your way of life? For instance if leaving, are you leaving a way of life behind? If renovating, what attitudes or part of you are you changing?

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5 thoughts on “The House of my Dreams Was NOT My Dream House

  1. I don’t dream of a house. The last time I remember dreaming of a house was over 20 years ago. I was cooking in the kitchen I’ve spent my whole life in. The dream wasn’t about the house but the dog laying on the floor. She was old and well loved. I hadn’t even bought her yet, but I’d met her as a puppy the night before. I went back and bought her that weekend. She did indeed spend her whole life in this house. The only thing that didn’t come true was the beautiful blue dress I was wearing. What does it say about me that I don’t dream about a house at all?

    • I’ve had dreams help me make decisions, like your puppy. Your mind had already envisioned her in your house and wanted you to see how great she would look in your kitchen! I’m just so happy my recurrent evil house dream has stopped tormenting me. I think it is more a sign my mind is healing and not so stuck, than it has to do with a house in particular. Interesting to think about though. Maybe I’ll stop dreaming of houses once I have a stable mind to house my dreams, hopes, thoughts?

      • What in interesting idea. I don’t know. I had another unpleasant dream this morning. As usual, if there’s a backdrop I recognize it’s the home I’ve lived in all my life. Maybe it’s an anchor. A good thing is I’ve started pinning houses I life on Pinterest. I might not be able to live somewhere else, but it doesn’t mean I can’t daydream about it. Perhaps your mind is recognizing what you’ve created…

    • Yes, stress will kick up the dreams. I also think I sleep poorly when stressed, so all the wake-ups help me remember so many dreams. Recalling 4 dreams each night is not uncommon for me. And daydreams are a survival mechanism, I’d never have gotten through boring classes or meetings without that ability.

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